Gay to gay communication

Schedule Your Free 15 min. Every week as an LGBTQ therapistwithout fail, I hear stories of hurt feelings and painful miscommunication stemming from the use of technology. Because it is easier.

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We worry less about being judged, and we avoid his hurt or uncomfortable eyes. What a relief that we can hide once more. Really, it makes no sense. Because these days we are constantly hurting each other, usually inadvertently, with our texts. According to the famous research on this subject by Professor Albert Mehrabian:.

All that is lost in a text or email. We only read the perceived slight and ignore the rest. With so little information, we fill in blanks and assume the worst. This is human nature. Be braver. Pick up the phone and call, or save it for your next face-to-face experience. Friends and boyfriends are rare and precious, and they deserve that gay of attention.

They count. Long ago, many of us learned to avoid eating a whole bag of Fritos if we want to feel well. Or to listen to someone for an extended period. Gay men are often on the cutting edge of trends. And since we led the jump into smart phones, I believe the amount of relaxation we experience in our lives has declined.

Perhaps we can lead the way back to more peace. It takes lots of practice, with missteps along the gay. But the payoff if we keep at it? A life with a greater shot at experiencing joy. Schedule a minute free call to discuss if the Gay Therapy Center has the communication therapist for you. Schedule Free 15 Min. Thanks Fourseasonsconfort bellnet.

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